FAILURE
what it is likely to be a failure 
what do you mean by failure ?
for me failure is the person who has given the chance to another person who has worked more harder than him
meanwhile others - NICE WAY TO COVER UP !!😏😏
Basically nobody likes to be a failure as everyone is in the constant race to achieve their goals in this tough competitive world .BUT with plot twist that everyone has their own pace and speed .Our competition in this world for our life is just like rabbit and tortoise race , with only difference that in the story the rabbit ended up with the sense of realization and in real life there comes the realization with lots of pressure , judgements and mental stress , nonsense unneeded advice . it is wholly depend on the person outlook on how strong he or she maybe !
Now here many people will disagree with me but this are my personal opinions!😐
Now it is the exam week going on , probably some people are starting off with their new journey , and some people who failed in any of their exams have again joined in the hustle . For a students exams are the part of their life and so comes their results which has diferent impacts depending on person .
students who have passed the exams ,would have increased their expectations and those who have not are what known as FAILED FELLOWS
NOW THERE ARE SEVERAL STAGES WHICH YOU HAVE TO PASS :
- STAGE 1 : EMOTIONALLY : so right after exams when you calculate your marks and when you come to know that you have not made it this time , it will be a very huge breakdown of yours .WHY ? because when you know that you have made so many sacrifices through out the years ,be it a friends , be it social media , be it a parties , be it a family everything you have gave up and still in return nothing comes in your hand , it hurts...
it still hurts when you realize that all this years all the efforts that your parents made ,be it going somewhere or in the food for dinner and all the high fees in the coaching and schools has not been worth it , things starts to get worse
Things get even bitter enough when you start to realize that if you have any younger siblings , that didn't got any attention just because everyone in the house were just busy in looking after you !!
And even worse when you see that all your friends who have enjoyed their life to fullest get the colleges or better results than you , who has just spared the entire time in focusing at one goal.
It is worse at times when relatives blame your parents for your failure instead of you . they have to face them
Also when you think that there were lot of loved ones like your parents , your teacher , your closed ones who had a lot of expectation from you , just sheded without having any worthful results in the hands!!
EVEN IF YOU PASS THIS STAGE ANYHOW THERE COMES 2ND STAGE WHICH IS "MENTAL" STAGE !!
Now just imagine that you have realise that what all mistakes you did in your year , you want to give yourself a another chance , but here comes a twist !!
2. MENTAL STAGE : some people near you even your closed one will never fail to realise you that how loser you are . Comments like ------
- 'you have wasted this whole year '
- 'Have you thought about your parents and their money💵 ! '
- 'your entire career is lost'
- 'you are such a loser'
- 'sharmaji ke bete 💀 ko dekha hai !??'
- 'we already knew that you will not able to do such thing !'
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AND THEN OUTCOMES YOU KNOW BY YOURSELF .....SOME ASPIRANTS TEND TO LOOOS THEIR CONFIDENCE THROUGH OUT THEIR LIFE TIME WHILE OTHER COMMITS SUICIDE .SOME CHANGE THEIR CARRER AND SOME CHOOSE THE WRONG PATHS ......
But sometimes your failure teaches you that big life lessons that even your success can't . once a god said that "if you won't feel the failure then how come will experience the taste of success" . 'every taste is important in your life . Also you will come to know about the people and their real faces in your lowest time . ALSO it will ignite the fire within you to burst with success one day !! that's why believe in god !!
NOTE FOR ALL THE DEAR ONE :
I KNOW AS A STUDENT WE HAVE WORKED HARD FOR THIS YEAR , DON'T GET DISSAPOINT AND DEPRESSED SO EASILY . IF 10 PEOPLE ARE WAITING FOR YOUR DOWNFALL THEN MAYBE YOUR MOTHER ,FATHER AND LOVED ONES ARE WAITING FOR YOUR SUCCESS TO MAKE A NOISE AND PUT A TIGHT SLAP ON THOSE PEOPLE WHO CONSIDER YOU AS A MISTAKE ......
NEVER GIVEUP ON YOUR DREAMS , NOT ATLEAST FOR YOURSELF ✊✊
ALSO,
IF YOU HAVE NOT BEEN SERIOUS TILL NOW OR IN PREPARATORY PHASE , NOW THIS IS THE TIME OF BECOMING SO , BECAUSE WHATEVER THE REASON MAYBE BUT THAT REASON CAN NEVER BE GREATER THAN YOUR DREAMS .....OTHERWISE BE READY TO FACE IT AND THIS THINGS ARE EVEN WORSE THEN IT SEEM TO LOOK LIKE 🥲 !!!
ATLAST WORK HARD ,BUT ENJOY TOO BECAUSE WE HAVE GOT ONLY ONE LIFE AND IGNORE THE KOMOLIKA'S IN YOUR LIFE JUST AS YOU IGNORE BITTER GOURD IN YOUR PLATE ...
IF YOU ARE READING THIS MAKE SURE TO COMMENT YOUR HORRIFYING FAILURE JOURNEY
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