OUR FIRST LOVE
OUR FIRST LOVE ππ
All this school time may have passed successfully but the real fun was at school's farewell and on teachers day where your crush use to dress like a hero or heroine and on that your eyes were just on him .and on that day yours friend group has the hot topic on you where they use to encourage you to talk to them .
I am sure you must be very sad on the last day of meeting with him/her ,regretting for the whole time for not confessing but in todays time where social media has helped you to certain extent where some introverts leave their shyness besides and talk to each other comfortably . some of the couples are that lucky or fortunate that they even continue their higher studies together ,good for them but you and me are not that fortunate enough ππyou know !!
For me I never had any feeling for anybody ,trust me !!
but not all love stories and likings lead to good endings ,some times it might be painful too .we should be considerate to our loved one but at the same time we should also have to set out our priorities !!this is controversial topic which can even hurt some people but trust me guys this is what it is !! we know that before anybody else we have to fulfill our basic expectations and our goals before any relationship ,to me i feel that one will be most happy if he or she is dating after achieving our basic career goals .I know that this is never ending but just give it thought that if you have no skills , no money , no parent support than how will going to continue your love life .even the partner of your will see pros and cons for living with you as he or she will definitely have better options. see if your parents are rich then there is nothing to bother but if you come from very basic middle class family then you know the problem that our parents face to fulfill our dreams and if we just ignore them for the sake of our love life then do you think it is going to last for long !!
I know thousands of couple who have achieved great height with relationships and has even seen couples getting even worse in relationship .see the thing is it never guarantee you for your success and for relations.it all depends on you if you think you can manage it then who are we to tell you
but personally i am not the same because if i do so then I end up thinking , day dreaming about himππ
IN todays time of social media and internet where some people pretends to be a couple but has different face behind the camera . but not everybody is same as I mentioned !!I am sure that in any social media you might have seen small kids probably 15 or 16 or even small marrying each other and settling
don't get jealous here π
they are definitely wrong and they will understand in some point of their life because everything seems to be good when you have potential of your own ,your income and good or decent job or skill , otherwise why would be anyone with you when you have nothing ! you know love is just a feeling which has its own time to express and can be controlled if you can ,coming into relationship can give you temporary happiness for some time time maybe months ,years but if you have started without having any goals then it is just problematic for you both !!
At last love can be your priority but not necessity but your parents and your dream should be your priority .just don't give up on your dream so easily for just temporary feelings !! work hard and god is always there with you !!
I hope you will get to see you crush soonππ!!
thank you for reading till hereπ , I MUST SAY YOU HAVE GREAT PATIENCE AND YOU ARE GREAT READER TOO ,MAKE SURE TO COMMENT ABOUT YOUR FIRST LOVE AND I WILL BE PLEASED TO READ YOURS!!
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THANK YOU
You seem experienced thoughπ... But still it's raw and true to point..
ReplyDeleteI think you also have experienced all the above things.... π€¨π
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